اچو ته فٽبال جي ڳالهه ڪريون.

As we head into another new week, many people will be enjoying the excitement of the World Cup. While the tournament is taking place thousands of miles from the UK, research has shown an increase in reports of domestic abuse during major football events. It is important to be clear that: FOOTBALL DOES NOT CAUSE ABUSE. ABUSERS DO. It is not about his team winning or losing, don’t be mistaken!

Domestic abuse is about power and control. One of its most damaging forms is coercive control, which is a pattern of behaviour designed to dominate, isolate, and intimidate another person. It is often subtle, making it difficult for victims to recognise until they feel trapped.

Coercive control can involve isolating someone from family, friends, or colleagues; controlling finances; monitoring phones and social media; creating fear through unpredictable behaviour; or making a victim feel as though they are constantly walking on eggshells. These behaviours are not signs of love or care; they are clear warning signs of abuse. Run, ask for help!

Pay attention to who controls money decisions, how your time is managed, whether your privacy is respected, and whether your partner displays aggression towards animals or others. These can all be indicators of a pattern of controlling behaviour.

If you feel afraid in your relationship, do not dismiss those feelings or hope that things will improve. Abuse often escalates over time, and seeking help early can save lives. No one deserves to live in fear.

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 999.

If you need support, Bawso is here as your bridge to safety. Call the freephone helpline on 0800 731 8147. We will LISTEN, we will BELIEVE YOU, we will HOLD your hand, and we will give you a SAFE PLACE to stay.

Together, by recognising the signs of coercive control and speaking out against abuse, we can help protect victims and challenge those who choose to abuse their power.